Welcome to Lunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties Table, the podcast where we don’t apologize for taking up space, speaking our truth, or getting a little naughty. Let's get down to the nitty gritty before we, your favorite Black femmes with too much to say and zero time for respectability politics. Around here, we’re soft and sharp. Hot and unfriendly — depending on the day. This week, we’re reflecting on something we need more of: M-Sub and yearning. Turn us up, take your time, and maybe… keep your hands free. This is Lunch at the Unfriendly Black Hotties Table — press play and don’t be shy.
Ep. 3:‘Baby I'm Begging, Baby I'm Begging, Begging Baby’: The Art of the M-Sub
Main topics
Explanation of submissive and dominant roles in relationships
What does submission mean? Per “Playing Well with Others” by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams, submission means “the act of ceding control.”
What does “submissive” mean?
Per the same text, it’s defined in 2 ways:
1.) as an adj. “The quality of ceding authority or influence.”
2.) as a noun: “An individual who surrenders control in a power exchange dynamic.”
Why this topic matters
We’re seeing submissive tropes throughout pop culture — ESPECIALLY with the long-running BookTok craze.
We see these trends being mimicked in audio erotica, with tags referring to booktok or something likely to trigger an “oooooooh!” to those who may be into the keyword.
Keywords
Submissive
Submission
Soft Top
Yearning
Begging
Takeaways: It’s OK for men to be safe with their partner if they are comfortable doing so.
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